My MIL used to have Piran for a few hours one afternoon a week, but since the middle of November there have been a number of reasons that it has not been possible. The past couple of weeks things have got back to normal so we are just getting back into the routine of her looking after him for me. It is good, although I find it hard to switch off, because he doesn't sleep and eat the same way as he would with me, and I usually end up with a grumpy baby at the end of it!
That said, this week I made no real plans to do anything, just arranged for her to have him this afternoon and once he was sorted I decided to go into town. I had a vague idea of finding somewhere for some lunch and to sit and write.
I read a post on Motherhood: The Final Frontier this week called Wholeheartedness which has really stuck with me so I decided to just go with the flow and see what would happen. The result was a few hours that were better than I could have imagined.
I found the perfect parking space in the small little car park. I had the correct change for parking in my purse. I had time to browse in the children's book shop I have always meant to go into but never found the time. I found a cafe that I had heard about but never quite found before. I got a seat in the sun, outside, and realised it was warm enough to sit without a coat. I ordered a cup of tea and a fruit scone, and when it arrived it was pretty and perfect. The cafe owner gave me a hot water bottle in case I was cold and it warmed my lap as I wrote.
When I ran out of things to write a loud man had an intriguing conversation with two women which I scribbled into my notebook, about the Royal Ballet and houses worth £20 million pounds with courtyards and disappearing swimming pools. I finished and was ready to leave just as the sun hit the rooftop. The delightful treat cost only £3.50. I remembered to buy Piran a helium balloon, which I had wanted to do for ages. Driving home this in my rearview mirror made me jump, then laugh!
The sky was perfect and blue and gave me hope of warmer, happier days full of adventure ahead.
I opened the post and my mum had sent me the outline of a tea cosy that I was waiting for. She had also sent me this article which I immediately tweeted about!
I was seized by the urge to start sewing right then so I did. Piran came home and he had learnt to blow raspberries and was so funny I fell over from laughing at him. Mr C offered to buy a takeaway. I finished sewing my tea cosy and I am so impressed with how well it turned out.
This afternoon did more for my feeling of happiness and well being than anything else I can imagine. Just sitiing back and going with the flow and just trusting that things will be fine and will work out.
I hope I can manage to have one of these days again tomorrow.
This post is my entry for this week's Writing Workshop - write about one of those days. Click on the picture and come and join in.





19 comments:
Sounds like a great day. It can take a real leap of faith to go with the flow, so glad it worked out. Oh, and fantastic tea cozy, I love it!
it sounds like such a great day!
Sounds like a great feel good day! Thank you for sharing. The tea cosy is great by the way - nothing like a proper cuppa tea to help you put things into perspective xx
Nice day and nice pics!
Oh such a lovely day, that really reminded me of the late stages of my pregnancy when I was desperate for cream tea!
I am glad you had such a blissful avo hon, anf fab tea cosy! xxx
I adore the tea cosy and I think that we all need to recharge our batterys every now and again. We had a fantastic afternoon yesterday too, must have been the day for it
Fab pics :) I think that you need to arrange to visit that cafe once a month as a treat for you. The owner sounds lovely and I adore eavesdropping... it's so voyeuristic.
Oh that sounds just PERFECT!! I'm in need of one of those days.
Loved that the cafe owner gave you a hot water bottle, that sounds like the best cafe in the world.
Your photos are beautiful too xx
Love the tea cosy, and love the hot water bottle idea! What a great day.
Don't you just LOVE days like that! Love the tea cosy :)
what a lovely day out :) sounds very chilled & relaxing...
Love the tea cosy too - good job!
Wow sounds like you had an amazing day. Loving the tea cosy!
nice! wish my wednesday had gone so well.... i enjoyed the sunshine but had one of 'those day' rather than one of those days..... i would write about it, but it's already late on thursday and i just can't.
I love those perfect days, they don't happen often enough! So funny that the cafe gave you a hot water bottle - but very thoughtful :)
How fabulous! What a great day. I especially love the hot water bottle touch. Isn't it amazing what happens when you get into the flow and stop resisting with your head, but just follow the course and allow life to unfold. I'm so glad this worked out for you.
Fab tea cosy, btw.
xoxo
Mothership
That sounds so lovely. I think I'm in love with that cafe owner and his/her hot water bottle for the lap idea. That's genius!
Your tea cozy looks so lovely.
That does sound like a great day!! Loving that cafe owner and his hot water bottle! Bless.
great post....sounds like fun.
great blog...
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